Is life really a big struggle (for YOU) or it’s just a matter of (Your) perspective?

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Is life really a big struggle (for YOU) or it’s just a matter of (Your) perspective?

Almost everyone who comes to me for consultation is struggling with one thing or the other. Some of them are tired of battling and resisting; they are on the crossroads, they don’t know what to do, they say. Many of them tell me that life has been too hard on them. They tell me that life is a struggle and it has been like that for them ever since.

Yes. Life can be hard and full of struggle. But is it really different for anybody else?

  • Those who lack money think that people with money have it easy.
  • Those with wealth and stressful businesses think others with simple nine-to-five jobs have an easier life.
  • The healthy think the wealthy are better.
  • The wealthy think happy people are better.
  • Yet, there are people who are healthy, wealthy and everything else you can imagine and they’re still depressed; they still struggle to go through their life.
  • The truth is that’s what the life is about. For everyone.

As long as you are working towards accomplishing anything, there are going to be obstacles.

Success Secret Formula:

1: Simply learn to look at them as opportunities Instead of seeing it as struggle.

2. Learn to take 100% responsibility for your current situation in life.

3. Grow up and stop depending on others approvals for your own life.

4. Learn to make your own decisions and then also be prepared to stand by the consequences of your choice and decisions.

5. Remember, you can get anything, I really mean anything; from your life when you start participating in your life.

Have you noticed that over the years you have stopped participating in many important aspects of your life. You have simply turned into a spectator.

6. Wake up. Stop the blame game.

7. Take charge of your life. Do whatever you need to do to achieve your life’s purpose. Else, 20 years from now you will be still be regretting about the actions you could have taken today

8. The equally important is to enroll others in your possibilities such that they are moved, touched and inspired by your possibilities.

If you need any clarification on what I have said above, feel free to call me in person.

Govind Vedaprakash Shandilya
Numerologist at MyBirthSecrets
Author | Numerologist | Coach Law of Attraction
India's Most Popular and Trusted Numerologist and Mantra Expert from Bangalore


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