Leverage the Law of Attraction What you radiate outward in your thoughts, feelings, mental pictures, and words, you attract into your life. Have you tried to turn gravity on or off? Probably not because you realize that it can't be done. Well, there is another...read more
Did you know that 20% of millionaires never set foot in college? Even Bill Gates and Steve Jobs dropped out of college! Plus there are countless other examples of people who became successful in their field or who started a new path in their life without...read more
I am living positively at all times and have given up using negative phrases like “I can’t” because I know I CAN!
I am living positively at all times and have given up using negative phrases like "I can't" because I know I CAN! Your brain is designed to solve problems and reach goals, and that means you must give up phrases like "I can't," "I wish I were able to," and "If only I...read more
Affirmation of the day I am working toward fulfilling my goals every day and I easily move past those times when my expectations are not met. Napoleon Hill, the author of Think and Grow Rich once said, "You can be anything you want to be, if only you believe with...read more
July 12, 2019 Today I enter into my 59th year. Leaving behind 58 year's of life filled with love, care, togetherness and unshakable belief in God. Thank you Parvathi, Kuberan, Nisha, Amulya, all my siblings, school and college friends, staff and clients who shaped me...read more
Did you know, light of love depends on these 4 important conditions?
Light of love depends on these 4 important conditions — Respect, Care, Compassion and Appreciation. Fail one condition and it flickers, fail two and it goes away.
Respect your spouse: When you marry and start staying together, there will be trying times, difficult days. Especially, during such times when you disagree with each other, it’s critical that you don’t shout at your spouse. For your own good respect each other. Self-esteem, self-respect, or even ego is linked to the most innate human aspect of self-preservation. Respect is not limited to just respecting the other person, but their values too.
Care: Being available for your spouse in their times of need is real care. Love isn’t just about paying the bills. Care in action is far more important than care in words.
Compassion: When you don’t agree with your spouse and even if you don’t understand their perspective; learn to be kind towards them and their mistakes. Consciously avoid holding them hostage to your own self-perceived sense of superiority or perfection. We are often compassionate towards our own mistakes. However, having a compassion for the other person heals love.
Appreciation: When you appreciate, it makes the other person feel valued, it makes them fill loved, feel important. Whenever you see good in the other person, express it, appreciate it and they would automatically want to do more good. Often, love is confused for an emotion; for madly wanting someone, or being badly wanted by the other person.
However, lasting love is always mutual. You can’t love someone out of pity or obligation. It’s true that in the initial stages, love is a strong feeling and then a strong desire. Thereafter, it’s an act; not the act of making love, but the act of loving. It requires some efforts from both sides.