Self Appraisal A little boy went to a telephone booth which was at the cash counter of a store and dialed a number. The store-owner observed and listened to the conversation: Boy: “Madam, can you please give me the job of cutting your lawn? Woman: (at the other end of...read more
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Stop re-creating the same experience over and over!
An important concept that successful people understand is that you are never really stuck. You simply keep recreating the same experience over and over by thinking the same thoughts, maintaining the same beliefs, speaking the same words, and doing the same things.
Too often, you get stuck in an endless loop of reinforcing behavior, which keeps you stuck, in a constant downward spiral.
Your limiting thoughts create images in your mind, and those images govern your behavior, which in turn reinforces that limiting thought.
Imagine thinking that you are going to forget your lines when you have to give presentation at work. The thought stimulates the picture of you forgetting a key point. The image creates an experience of fear. The fear clouds your clear thinking, which makes you forget one of your key points. That in turn reinforces your self-talk that you can’t speak in front of groups.
As long you keep complaining about your present circumstances, your mind will focus on it. By continually talking about, thinking about and writing about, the way things are, you are continually reinforcing those very same neural pathways in your brain that got you to where you are today. And you are continually sending out the same vibrations that will keep attracting the same people and circumstances that you have already created.
To change this cycle, focus on thinking, talking and writing about the reality you want to create. You must flood your unconscious with thoughts and images of this new reality.