Divine Art of Listening

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Divine Art of Listening

The more listening you do, the more God-like you will appear. At the same time you will also become more smarter. You will be liked better and make excellent conversationalist.

A good listener always winds up far ahead of a good talker in the affections of people. This is because, a good listener always allows people to hear their favorite speakers, themselves.

Top 5 Rules to become a good listener

  1. Look at the person who is talking. Anyone worth listening is worth looking at too.
  2. Lean towards the speaker and listen intently. Appear as if you don’t want to miss a single word.
  3. Ask questions. This let’s the other person (the talker) know that you are listening.
  4. Stick to speaker’s subject and don’t interrupt. Avoid changing subjects on a person until he is finished; no matter how anxious you are to get started on a new one.
  5. Use the speaker’s words — you and your. When you use I, me, my and mine, you are switching the focus from the speaker to yourself. That’s talking not listening.
Govind Vedaprakash Shandilya
Numerologist at MyBirthSecrets
Author | Numerologist | Coach Law of Attraction
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