Self Appraisal A little boy went to a telephone booth which was at the cash counter of a store and dialed a number. The store-owner observed and listened to the conversation: Boy: “Madam, can you please give me the job of cutting your lawn? Woman: (at the other end of the phone line) “I already have someone to cut my lawn.” Boy: “Madam, I will cut your lawn for half the price than the person who cuts your lawn now.” Woman: “I’m very satisfied with the person who is presently cutting my lawn.” Boy: (with more perseverance) “Lady, I’ll even sweep the floor and the stairs of your house for free. Woman: “No, thank you.” With a smile on his face, the little boy replaced the receiver. The store-owner, who was listening to all this, walked over to the boy. Store Owner: “Son… I like your attitude; I like that positive spirit and would like to offer you a job.” Boy: “No thanks!” Store Owner: “But you were really pleading for one.” Boy: “No Sir, I was just checking my performance at the job I already have. I am the one who is working for that lady I was talking...Read More
Rewiring your brain to become More Calm and Loving… The Boss was retiring. Everyone had tears in their eyes on the day of his farewell. One of the employees said, “Sir, there is one thing we want to learn from you. You worked here for so many years. Leave aside about scolding your subordinates, we have never seen you even shouting at them.” “We have scolded our subordinates on pressure of work or for other reasons. We want to know about the seed of your patience.” The Boss said, “This all comes from the incident of my childhood. My father was working as a lower level employee in an office. He was a very nice person. He was respected very much in our family.” “It happened one day, I was studying in the 4th standard. I had gone to the office of my father for some reason. I saw that my father was not on his seat. I waited outside.After some time, the door of the Boss opened, my father came out of the door. I saw the fair face of my father had turned red. He went straight to a corner and stood there looking outside through a window.” “He had not seen me. I went to him and called him slowly. He was taken by surprise and turned back to look at me.” “I saw stream of...Read More
Your Key to Success & Happiness All of us want two things out of life — Success and Happiness. And one common denominator for all success and happiness is other people. Merely learning how to get along with people is no guarantee of either success or happiness. What really counts is a way to get along with people, or deal with people, that will bring us personal satisfaction and at the same time not trample on the egos of those we deal with. Human Relations is the science of dealing with people in such a way that our egos and their egos remain intact. And this is the only method of getting along with people that ever brings any real success or any real satisfaction. The reason 90% of people fail in life. The Carnegie Institute of Technology analysed the records of 10,000 persons, and arrived at the conclusion that 15% of success is due to technical training, to brains and skill on the job, and 85% of success is due to Personality factors, to the ability to deal with people successfully! Another research showed that out of 4000 people who lost their jobs in one year, only 10% lost out because they could not do the work. Remaining 3600 people lost out because they hadn’t developed the personality for successfully dealing with other people! Look around you. Are...Read More
The key to successful human relations The real key to successful human relations is learning as much as we can about human nature as it is, not as we think it ought to be. Only when we understand just what we are dealing with are we in a position to deal with it successfully. So let’s take a look at human nature. Let’s see just what it is that other people really want. Let’s get together and work out some methods for supplying these needs and wants. Let’s learn how to work with human nature, rather than against it. Maybe we’ll learn that the big trouble with the world isn’t that people are made the way they are, but we too often ignore the hungers of the people with whom we deal. You may be agreeably surprised to find that human nature really needs no glossing over, no idealizing, but that the good Lord really did know what He was doing when He made us the way He did. Whenever I hear somebody knocking human nature, and blaming his troubles on the fact that the human race is so cussed, I am reminded of something that Harry Matelski, director of personnel for Wolf & Dessauer, Fort Wayne, Indiana, once said : “Have you ever noticed that a mediocre typist is very likely to express dissatisfaction with the typewriter? And...Read More
You can get what you want & help others at the same time. Right now you have in abundance many things that other people want. Offer these things to others and they will gladly give you success and happiness in return. Maybe you have never fully realized that you possess valuable assets that other people are hungry for. You can get what you want and help others at the same time. For many years, we have assumed that if we attempted to satisfy our own desires for success and happiness, we would of necessity deprive some other person of satisfying his own wants. But the evidence all points to the other direction. A happy human being is more likely to spread happiness than an unhappy human being. A prosperous human being is more likely to benefit those with whom he deals than is a chronic failure. A person who has reasonably satisfied his own desires is much more generous and considerate in taking into account the desires of others than is a person whose every desire has been frustrated. Psychologists, criminologists, ministers, and now even doctors tell us that most of the trouble and misery in this world is caused by unhappy people. They tell us that by making yourself miserable and frustrated, you are doing other people the greatest disservice you could possibly devise. Tomorrow I will share...Read More
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